[Ep 4] – 6 Life Lessons Soon Ae Taught Me In Oh My Ghost #YOLO

– 1 – Forget The Bullsh*t You Know I’m Right

Instead of softening reality, you gotta face the truth. Soon Ae illustrated this well when she tells Bong Sun that if it weren’t for her antics she wouldn’t even have a chance with Sun Woo. Bong Sun knew it was right too. Peeking from the shadows, tiptoeing around Sun Woo to avoid ticking him off gets her nowhere. Soon Ae was cut straight and blunt with everyone she interacted with. Sometimes we just got to admit the blatant truth in front of us and stop looking for self pity. #GuiltyAsCharged

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– 2 –  Be Shameless To Achieve Your Goals

Soon Ae has taught all of us that it don’t matter what your goal is, be bold, unabashed and reach for it. All be it she shows us via her horny intentions. Sometimes you’ve got to forget all the fakeness, go for it and deal with the consequences later. As was seen the numerous times she tried to hook and reel in Seo Joon. Gotta admit my favourite, and probably less sexual, example was when Bong Sun finally caves in to Soon Ae’s plan. Like Soon Ae explained, you can wait all you want hiding in the shadows but the next bit*h won’t be waiting. #BeGreedyBongSun #EveryBitch4Herself

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– 3 – Perseverance Is Key

Her goal was Sun Woo. The woman did everything to get him in bed. She did not hold back and was blunt about her sexual need. She knew no boundaries, verbally or physically, for her goal and that was SO evident in Ep 6. But she ended up getting a lap to sleep on by the end of the night. 😉 Soon Ae was a good example of how effective persistence can be. I wish I could have said the same to myself during my revision days. To be honest without persistence you will never achieve what you want because you will always be behind and grow stagnant. “It can wait another day” is usually the phrase I come out with when I lose my persistence. #StrugglesOfDoingYourPassion #YouAreYourOwnResponsibility

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– 4 – Forgive & Forget

This is something I really need to learn. Remember that episode where Sun Woo becomes a cocky di*k to his old bully? Well Soon Ae was the one to bring him off his high horse. She explains nicely in that scene that every day is too valuable to be keeping grudges from the past. Those who forgive can move on easily and get on with life, whilst those who can’t stay stuck in that moment for no reason. Just like a painting in the museum of their mind. Most important of all of course if you’re still pissed, get pissed. #BottomsUp

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– 5 – Make Friends With Everyone, Anyone & The Annoying Ones

I’ve always hated seeing lonely people, mainly because I know how it feels. I always try my best to include everyone and that’s exactly what Soon Ae does. Regardless of age, gender, etc. I think you get my point. This girl was friends with a shaman, a bully who parred her on a regular basis and even managed to make all of Bong Sun’s colleagues her ‘Oppa’s’. She treated all of them the same and didn’t distinguish them. I mean she even became besties with Min Soo, even though that usually happened when they were both smashed. But this guy had no ratings, yet she still was friendly with him.

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– 6 – YOLO

I can’t believe I use YOLO more often these days. Ultimately, even if you don’t agree with my above points, you can’t deny that this was Soon Ae’s motto in life. A very good one too. She mentions this first in Ep 3 once delving into Bong Sun’s mediocre makeup bag. Being cautious and conventional is too tiring especially when you realise that this moment now, you can’t go back on. Instead of obsessing over someone else’s life, pick yourself up. Ain’t got time to be keeping up with people when you could be I don’t know, wearing that jacket you think looks amazing but are too afraid to rock. #DoYou #NobodyGotTime4People #CantBeKeepingUpWithTheKardashians #KeepUpWithYourselfFirstFool

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3 Comments Add yours

  1. lynshaiza says:

    I love the screen shots, each set perfectly told different stories.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. TheOnlyShamz says:

      Awh thanks bruh! Too many life lessons that I couldn’t not do a post 🙂 Your comment made my day so thanks ^-^


      1. lynshaiza says:

        Aww welcome. I’ll look out for more post from you, I’m sure I’ll enjoy more in the future 🙂

        Liked by 1 person

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